I first met her six years ago, and after dating for a while, we faced challenges like long distance and other issues that led to our breakup. However, about a year ago, we rekindled our relationship, and now our one-year anniversary is approaching.
I truly love her, and whenever I imagine my future, it’s always by her side, as my wife. Interestingly, she has also expressed a strong desire for marriage, as evident from her Instagram posts and our conversations. I even know the type of ring she would prefer.
Unfortunately, her father’s health is deteriorating, and without delving into too much detail, it seems that he has only a few months left to live.
Yesterday, they received the final prognosis. It’s an incredibly challenging time for her, and although I’ve done my best to offer support, there are limitations since they are currently overseas for treatment. Today, she expressed her explicit wish for her father to walk her down the aisle.
However, there are a few obstacles I’m facing. I have been dealing with chronic depression, which has had a significant impact on my life. I recently lost my job due to this condition, resulting in substantial debt. It’s been a struggle to provide for myself, and I had to make the heartbreaking decision to send my beloved dog to stay with my brother since I couldn’t afford to take care of him.
This has only exacerbated my depression. Currently, I am staying with a friend while I work on rebuilding my life. Financially and emotionally, everything feels like it’s in disarray. On the other hand, she has been an unwavering pillar of support during these darkest times.
Her family is relatively well-off, and her father has hinted at being willing to assist with any necessary expenses.
Unfortunately, my family holds negative feelings towards her because of her past infidelity when we first dated six years ago. Although I have forgiven her, and we have moved past it, my family still harbors these sentiments, making it challenging to gain their support in this matter.
Given these circumstances, I find myself hesitating. I’m seeking any guidance or additional considerations that I may have overlooked, which could help me make an informed decision about whether or not to propose to her.
