My husband-to-be told me, “She’s doing what she’s doing out of care.” I told him, “I know she cares but that same care should let her know that people want to be in charge of their own wedding because, in the end, it’s their wedding.
They are the ones going to experience everything so they owe it to themselves to make the experience worth it. Tell your mother to leave the key things to us. It’s our wedding.” We had this conversation because I couldn’t sit still and watch while his mother takes over everything concerning our wedding.
After we had that discussion, I thought he was going to be sympathetic towards my feelings but he said, “You’re only blowing the whole thing out of proportion. She’s trying to help because you’re an in-law. She loves you.”
That wasn’t the first time he had picked the side of his mother. He had taken the side of his mother in virtually everything concerning our wedding. We chose a location for our wedding reception. It was a very small place that didn’t…..Read Full Story Here……..
