My story! I was engaged in 2019.. church girl, said no st#x, I agreed and never attempted asking for 18 months.. but this guy would call nonstop whenever we were together until she takes the call (she said they’re just friends since University “bestie”).
One day she came visiting. (I was already suspecting she was che@ting, I’ve met a guy in her room at 9 pm whenI visited unannounced, she claimed he only came to visit.. hangs out at night with guys.. after our Introduction). stablog9ja She sat down, looked at me and started crying, cried bitterly.
I asked what the problem was but she couldn’t bring herself to respond. Finally she said “if I tell you, you’d run m@d”. limmediately knew she had done something that’s eating her up, knowing how sincere, honest and faithfulI was to her.
She cried helplessly while I str#ggled to breath I nearly ran m@d. I never saw her n@ckedness even once. Ireported the matter to the Marriage committee in church.
they insisted she introduce the guy to me. He told me he wasn’t aware she was getting married (we had done her introduction, list and other things); she was Busy collecting “Stick” while I was busy keeping myself, running around planning for wedding. If you see the lady you’d never believe she could do this (sanctimonious, no earrings, make-up.. always singing songs of Chastity) I called her Father and ended the sh#t Immediately.
After a month she returned to my office crying.. My boss and colleagues out of disappointment asked me to send her away. She sat in the compound and cried for hours.
The Civil Defense security staff in the compound asked what the problem was.. she replied ” lost SOMEONE”. It shook me o but I summoned the courage. I loved her with the whole of my being. She came begging buti rejected. Even the side guy helped her beg but I had made up my mind.