A single mother recently cancelled her plans to tie the knot with a man after she was asked to make an impossible decision
The woman who had a child from her previous relationship was asked not to bring the child into her matrimonial home after marriage.
On hearing such a condition, the young woman decided not to go ahead with the wedding preparations anymore
A beautiful woman thought it wise to cancel her imminent wedding after her husband-to-be and his family members made an impossible request.
The single mother was previously in a relationship which produced a child.
Single mother, child, move in with husband, cancel wedding
However, the relationship didn’t work out and she met another man who was interested in her and they got engaged.
Shortly after the engagement, her husband-to-be and his family insisted that she doesn’t bring her child into her matrimonial home after marriage.
Thembisele_Q who shared the story on Twitter said:
“I stan this girl. She cancelled her engagement mid-lobola negotiations because her fiancé and his family wouldn’t allow her to move in with her child from her previous relationship.”
Netizens react as lady cancels wedding
Amai Tee said:
“I know a man agreed she’d move with her 2 kids. He had 9 kids. After the wedding, she collects her kids and he’s like I married you to look after mine, send them away. Lots of meetings etc they were sent back. She stayed to look after his. Women have been through hell.”
Dumi wrote:
“No women will bring a child in my house the child can visit not full time never I would rather stay singly.”
Syre69 commented:
“He’s marring the woman and not her child, the child must stay with the father.”
Kitty Stones stated:
“Grow up. Sweetheart as soon as a woman tells you she has a child be prepared to love that kid as your own you cannot say you love someone and abandon a big part of them NEVER! Just go for someone with no child then. I for one do not wanna get married. I’ll always put her first.”
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Single mum reveals her baby daddy wants her back
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a Nigerian mum identified on TikTok as Ayinke Gold disclosed that her man abandoned her after getting her pregnant.
She later gave birth to a pretty girl who is growing beautifully and has now attracted the attention of her father who rejected her. However, Ayinke is not particularly keen on reuniting with the man who failed to take responsibility for his actions.
In a video she shared on TikTok, she recounted how the man denied getting her pregnant, but he now wants the baby. She said the man has been using her baby’s picture on his Whatsapp DP and that he wants them to be together again.