Relationship coach, Blessing Okoro has shared that she thinks her ex-hubby will be amazed if he sees her now.
Blessing shared this via a recent post shared on IG, adding that she used to be very calm and never used to talk.
The mother-of-2 went further to hint that her ex used to call her a zombie, due to her then-character.
She wrote;
One reality about me is that I did not use to talk .
I am sure my ex hubby will look at me now and be so shocked .
I use to be so calm, yes so calm to the point that my ex hubby will say I act like zombie? yes I was that calm, not because I had nothing to say but because I was constantly shut out.
Nkiruka shut up you have nothing to say, Nkiruka shut up you are a small gal . Nkiruka shut up you don’t have sense, Nkiruka shut up I am older than you . Gosh I began to believe him and felt so useless.
Depression swallowed me, I was so skinny people said it was my nature but that was a lie .
The day I left him and spoke out was the day my life changed .
Me okoro blessing Nkiruka face social media ?, me that could na face my class teacher? I was that shy. I hate to talk because I hate to be criticized. I look at myself today and can’t believe I conquered all .
How did I do it ??
By expressing myself, speaking my truth, sharing my voice , making mistakes and learning from them .
The biggest problem we have is perfection that we might never even attain .
I understood that voice is POWER that is why everybody wants to shut u up .
Talk talk talk .
Depression is just lack of expression.
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