I honestly do not understand men these days. Before I got married, everyone kept advising me to take my time and study the man I intend to marry before I settle down. I took this advice seriously. I thoroughly scrutinized men that came my way. It was also part of the reasons why I didn’t settle down in time.
I finally met this man when I was 27 and it felt like he was different from everyone else. I thought I had found the one who would compliment me and make this life’s journey worthwhile but seven years down the line, I am here and all I feel is anger and regrets. After two years of dating we got married and had two kids in our seven years of marriage.
I suddenly went to his Whatsapp and that was when I realized that the boy is my husband’s son and those pictures were sent by my husband. My husband buys him clothes, goes to see him frequently and of course sends money to his mom regularly. I was broken.
The boy is currently 6years old which means he had this boy a long time ago and never cared to mention it. I feel so bad. I confronted him immediately when he came home but he didn’t deny it. He has been apologizing but I feel betrayed. 6 good years and he never cared to inform me. What more could he be hiding from me if he could hide this. I don’t want to continue with this marriage but I need to know if I am making the right decision or just overreacting.